‘RHOSLC’: Mary Cosby Learns Her Son Robert Jr. Was Secretly Married for a Year

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On Tuesday’s second installment ofThe Real Housewives of Salt Lake Cityseason 4 reunion, the former pastor, 51, revealed she stilldidn’t believe her son was marriedafter confronting him about the rumors swirling about his union.

Mary told hostAndy Cohenthat she wouldn’t believe Robert Jr. was officially wed until he shows her the “paperwork.”

Mary Cosby

“I can’t even say it. I’m like, ‘Get your girlfriend.’ I keep calling her his girlfriend,” she said, before admitting she created an environment where he felt he couldn’t come clean about his marital status. “I was steadily telling him, ‘That’s not your wife.’”

Robert Jr. is 21-years-old, and Mary shared that she believed he was “way too young to be married.”

She then revealed that she confronted her son’s significant other about the intimate noises she’s heard. “I said, ‘Oh my gosh.' I said, ‘Don’t make my son think he’s better than he is. Stop doing all that. Stop playing with him. Stop it.’ Tell him the truth,” she recalled.

Andy Cohen on Mary Cosby

“I just told the wife or the girlfriend stop pretending,” she explained. “Because I walked past their room and hear all this noise, all this screaming, and all this dramatic and I’m like, ‘It’s not this serious. Don’t give him a big head and think that he’s this really…’ You know? Come on.”

While mimicking a loud orgasm, Mary recalled hearing a “yell.” She said she was about to burst into the room to check if everyone was okay when she “got the point” before walking in and left “scarred.”

“Be true to it. If it’s like that, then… but if it’s not, don’t make him think it is. Don’t be faking it. Yeah, that’s all,” she added.

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The Real Housewives of Salt Lake Cityairs Tuesday at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo.

source: people.com